Showing posts with label Culture. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Culture. Show all posts

Sunday, March 9, 2014

Back on Track

It has been a fabulous week! Why, you ask? I feel like I"m getting back on track with a few things.

Number 1: Run, Cat! Run! 

Ran to the Brooklyn Bridge 

I finally started running again. I have been a serious runner on and off since high school. I have a very bad habit of quitting for months at a time then starting again. Well, this week I started again and it felt great! A friend of Peter's has started a mileage challenge with me so I've got the motivation to keep it up!!

I have been bringing my running things to work and running around there (because the views are much better before going home on the train. My goal, as the weather starts to warm up, is to begin running in the mornings. I have to get ready for that 'Bama summer!




Number 2: Ridin' Dirty

My bike has been stuck inside my apartment through most of this winter.  For a while it was close to impossible to ride with all of the snow and ice. Then I was deterred by all of the salt and how quickly it would eat up my bike. In the past week we've had a few days of above freezing weather, enough to melt away the snow and ice and rinse the roads. Yesterday it was 50 degrees and first on my to-do list was to get my bike tuned up, road ready, and OUTSIDE.  I am so excited to start riding my bike to work again. Bring on the Roads!



Number 3: Organization

This school I work for just opened this September so we are still figuring out organization and storage. We have a room that will be a classroom for summer camp and school next year but currently does not have any children. It turned into a massive storage closet that was a complete eye sore. A co-worker and I decided to stay late and organize. We got so much done and actually ended up organizing all the classrooms as well. The only thing as satisfying as organizing your school, is organizing your apartment... which I did as well. I straight up love organizing. It was also great this happened because I'm having a very hard time curbing my desire to start packing for the move. I really, really like organizing but I LOVE packing... weird I know.



Number 4: Healthy Eating

In addition to getting my exercise routine back on track I finally went grocery shopping and stocked up on lots of healthy food options. I have a messed up metabolism so I try to steer clear of sugars and breads because they make me crash, and crash hard, sometimes into the floor. So I've got lots and lots of chicken and veggies, and some sweet treats like clementines and yogurt. I'm already feeling more energetic and healthy.

In summary, life is good. Preparations for the move as well as some trips we might take this summer are coming along. I've been spending more time with friends. I've got lots of NYC adventures planned now that the weather is a bit warmer and my bike is back in commission. So stay tuned!

Love my Girls! Love my City! 

Sunday, March 2, 2014

Special Ed tricks for a Regular Ed classroom

Teacher Certification is a headache. Let me summarize for you, I have an M.Ed and in...

North Carolina: I am certified Birth-Kindergarten in regular and special education

New York: I am certified Birth-2nd grade but was told I needed 6 additional credits to obtain a Special Education license. 

Alabama: Will be giving me a Preschool-Third grade teaching license but not a Special Ed license unless I complete an additional graduate program. 

P.s. I have no coursework or experience teaching children older than kindergarten... but neither NY or AL seem to have a problem certifying me for older grade levels. 

In turn, I'm pissed and sad and feeling a little rejected by AL and NY. I was a good special ed teacher! But I have been feeling like those skills are being wasted. I recently spoke to a wise, wise, WISE friend of mine who reminded me that I am using my "Special Education" knowledge everyday in my regular education classroom. 

So for you fellow teachers out there, here are 5 skills I learned in the Special Ed world that have made a huge difference in my Regular Ed Preschool classroom.

1. Visual Cues   

The BEST thing I ever purchased for my classroom was the Time Timer. In the special ed world, especially when dealing with children on the spectrum, we are taught to fill our room with visual cues for everything. The Time Timer provides a visual reference for time remaining until a transition, which is so helpful for all young children. I point out to the children when I am setting the timer for a transition, "When the red is gone it will be time to clean up!" I also provide 5, 2, & 1 minute warnings with a musical tune (sometimes with a slide whistle). By the time "the red is gone" the kids are prepared for the transition, and often very sick of my prompts. :) 

2. Prevention

"Prevention is the best Intervention." In high school and college I worked in group homes with adults with special needs. I was trained, lectured, and taught again and again about "triggers" and "de-escalation." In other words, being observant so you can resolve a situation before it gets out of control. Paying attention to body language, who interacts well with who, if someone seemed particularly irritable, woke up extra early or missed breakfast. This attention to what seem like tiny details will save your life in the classroom. I know a few pairs of students who love each other but just drive each other nuts. I know that if they are going to play together they need an adult close by or facilitating. I have learned to watch my students as they arrive in the mornings and spend time asking parents how the morning has been.  If your children are particularly obsessed with a toy, in my classroom it is Magna-tiles, limit the amount of time or the amount of children who are able to play at a given time. Itty bitty classroom management tools like this can turn around a tough day. 

3. All Children Fidget!
My first semester of graduate school I walked into a class and was surprised to see a table surrounded by large stability balls. Our teacher instructed us to sit on a ball around the table. After everyone was seated she told us we needed to sit still because some of the slight bouncing was distracting the students around us. Now, I'm a fidget-er.. I am usually tapping a pencil or twirling my hair and this professor actually snapped at me to put my hands in my lap. I was shocked! So a few minutes later the professor asked if anyone could figure out where she was going with the lesson. Of course, we had all gotten it pretty clearly. 

Early childhood teachers often forget that not every child is comfortable sitting still, not to mention sitting cross legged on the floor for an inappropriately long group time. In my special ed classroom many of the children had difficulties with muscle strength and tone so some of them sat in chairs, some would kneel over cylinder pillows. some would lay on their stomachs. I also had children with sensory processing disorders so I would give them a mound of playdough or specially designed "fidgets" to hold. Most teachers would shriek and say, "But didn't that distract them?! Didn't all the other children want one too?!"The answer is... Yes... sometimes. But guess what? I'd rather them be distracted for a few moments by something in their hands than the child next to them. In my regular ed classroom I have a few children who are more comfortable in chairs, a few who listen better when they have a small object to fidget and some who sit "criss-cross applesauce" on the floor and our group times are spectacular! 

4. Be Resourceful
My first teaching job was in a Non-Profit school. We had enough supplies but often not enough to keep the kids engaged and excited about materials. I leaned early on that "homemade is the best made" and that the smallest changes to toys or activities can make it new and exciting again. For example: Not only can you make your own playdoh, but the kids can help! Flowers that are about to die can be turned into a science activity. Another example is the Magnatiles mentioned above. Typically they are in a bucket to use at the table but when I stuck them on the magnetic dry erase board the kids went nuts! Sometimes it's the smallest things that can make a huge difference in keeping your students excited and engaged. Bored children are troubled children...


5. BE SILLY
Guys, being a teacher, no matter what age/grade or if you're in regular or special ed... is f*cking hard sometimes! But you know what makes it better? A smile. I swear on my life that sometimes even if it's just the worst day and you're in the worst mood, if you force yourself to smile, it'll turn the day around. The kids can see that too. If I've had a stern talking with any one of my students I will make sure to smile and end it with a "Kapeesh?" or "okie dokie artichoke?" Ending on a positive note with a silly comment and smile will cheer your kiddo up and yourself! Try it sometime! 

Lastly... specifically for Early Childhood teachers. Even if your kiddos don't have developmental delays or congenital disorders.. THEY ARE JUST KIDS. They have no idea what they are doing or why they are doing it most of the time. They have no advanced reasoning skills and can be impulsive little beasts on occasion (but we love it!). I often find peace in how simple children's actions really are. Larry was irritated by the high pitched music but didn't have the words to express this so he threw a toy at the stereo. Lucy wanted the toy that Jackie had, but Jackie wouldn't share. So Lucy smacked her and then Jackie slapped her back.  I totally get it! Who hasn't wanted to do that in their adult life (refer to ever news report of Black Friday sales)?! Taking a moment to try to understand where they are coming from, or if there is something else going on with them that day (refer to #2) will help you manage your classroom and remain calm and collected through those tough situations. Also, these are not moments to punish, these are moments to teach. Give them the tools and words (or body language) to respond differently next time rather than just telling them they did something wrong.

I am no expert, but have been surrounded by amazing and wise teachers over the years. If you are reading this and have tips or tricks of your own, please share them in the comments. We teachers have to stick together!!!


Teach On!
Which Flower Do the Rats Like the Best? 

Sunday, February 23, 2014

Home is...?




Home is where the heart is.
Home is where the house is.
Home is where the Army takes us.
Home is where you dance in your underwear.
Home is where the Wifi connects automatically.
Home is where...






This past week I have been home in Minnesota visiting my parents. I've been thinking a lot about what home means... and for me it's a tricky concept. There are all sorts of sayings and descriptions of what and where home is, but it's really not that simple is it? 

"Where is home?"
"There are a few..."
"Yeah, Yeah, but... where is home?"
"They're all home"
"????"

I was born and raised in Maplewood, MN. For 18 years of my life, there was no question that Minnesota was home. Then I moved to Charleston, SC for college. Soon after Charleston felt like "home". My job, belongings, friends, everything except my family was there. I'd even argue that my "heart" was in Charleston. I quickly adopted the deep south way of life. Minnesota was still home, but Charleston was too. 

After graduating, for no reason in particular I moved to Charlotte, NC. Soon, Charlotte felt much more like home than Charleston ever had. I was an established adult with a full time job, lots of friends, a car that I purchased and paid for myself, and my very own health insurance (exciting right....?). Two years after moving, I met Peter. Most of his family is in Charlotte which added to the feeling of home-ness. 

4 years after moving to Charlotte I decided to move to New York. Not only to be closer to 
West Point but because... it's freaking NEW YORK! Now New York feels more like home than any of the previously mentioned cities. So here comes the real conundrum... 

Where the heck is home?! 

In the past week I have said both of these things, "I'm going home to Minnesota." Then, " I'm going home to New York." In the past month I've also said, " I'm trying to get home to Charlotte soon." I"m fairly positive that in the next 6 months I'll be adding Alabama to my list of "places that feel like home". So my answer, although not profound is a slight variation 

"Home" is all the places your heart may be. 

It's okay to call more than one place home... right?

Tuesday, August 6, 2013

A Country/City Girl

Last week, while waiting for the train near West Point to head back to the city... I closed my eyes for a moment.  It was so.... quiet. The only sounds were the Hudson river lapping behind me, crickets, a few birds, and a breeze whistling through the trees. I sat there for an entire 15 minutes just taking it all in.

On the train ride home, I started to think about how much I had enjoyed that moment and I realized that each move I've made, I've develop new and sometimes random appreciations.  Just a few examples:

My first big move was when I was 18 from my home in the St. Paul, Minnesota to Charleston, SC.   Growing up in Minnesota I really had no appreciation for snow. It came every year, why fuss about it?  Snow in Charleston, on the other hand was enough to stop the press (literally, everything shut down). Now whenever it snows, I am a child... seriously ask my co workers, I went outside and danced the last time it snowed.

The second big move was to Charlotte, NC. While in Charleston... I hadn't fully appreciated how easy it was to access GORGEOUS beaches and rich, rich history.  Now, whenever I get a wiff of that salt water smell I instantly feel relaxed (and crave beer). I also try to take advantage of being somewhat near  the ocean here in NYC as much as possible.

My most recent move was to NYC and obviously (while I LOVE this city) I have come to appreciate nature, quiet, and a dark sky to see the stars (seriously.. the sky never gets dark here). Growing up in the Twin Cities, which is a large metropolitan area... I was always craving something more urban. Now that I've had it I'm craving something more, well... rural. Of course there are a million more things I've loved about each city, and a million things that I miss about each of them as well. For the most part though, I've always been ready to move on.

I am so grateful that I have the chance to experience such different places and have come to have an appreciation for the little things. It's funny how life works itself out isn't it? Peter and I are hoping to be headed to Alabama next. If I hadn't had the chance to live in NYC I wouldn't have developed an appreciation for the peace and tranquility that being outside (or nowhere near) a city can bring you... I would have been miserable in AL. Now, the idea of having space, cheap rent, and being in the middle of nowhere is actually pretty exciting!

In the meantime, I'm going to continue trying to take advantage of everything that NYC has to offer!!! I  will continue to chip away at my list and also add new things until life (or the Army) takes me somewhere new!

I love this city....

But, I love this too....

Wednesday, July 10, 2013

10 Lessons I've learned from Biking in NYC

Yesterday I rode from Brooklyn to Manhattan (during rush hour) to pick something up from a store there. I learned a few lessons in the process....

  1. Rush hour for cars is also rush hour for bikes. 
  2. Make the assumption that nobody (pedestrians, drivers, or dogs) sees or hears you because most of the time... they don't.
  3. Assume that every yellow cab is actually trying to hit you.  
  4. At all times you need to be looking in front, in back, to the left, to the right, as well as down for the random sink holes that I swear have cameras pinned on them so government officials can watch bikers unknowingly fly over them and laugh at their almost demise.
  5. The Manhattan Bridge is ALWAYS a better alternative to the Brooklyn.... unless your actual goal is to run over tourists and amateur photographers. 
  6. People who bike the wrong way in a bike lane deserve to be yelled at... don't hold back.
  7. Citibike riders often have no idea of typical "road etiquette" BEWARE! ( Don't worry I'm still a huge supporter... although those people need to wear helmets!)
  8. When in a protected bike lane, you are not safe! Your new enemies are pedestrians, doors, and dogs.
  9. Riding your bike is the ONLY way to have complete control over your arrival time. You will not get stuck in traffic or be subject to the whimsical temper of the MTA
  10. As long as you're a wise and aware rider. NYC is very bike friendly and you will see things you never would have seen on foot, by car, or by public transportation. 
Ride On My Friends
I also discovered the Allen St Green way which was a pleasant change from the China Town streets!




Monday, July 1, 2013

Open Minds

"Acceptance is not love. You love a person because he or she has lovable traits, but you accept everybody just because their alive and human" - Albert Ellis

This weekend has left me with a renewed hope and faith in humankind. What was supposed to be a weekend of mountain biking and hiking in New Jersey turned into a cultural adventure in and around Manhattan.

Saturday:

Peter and I had planned to take our bikes out on some trails and maybe even venture up to Kaaterskill Falls but after looking at the weather forecast for the weekend, we decided to stay in the city. Still craving an adventure I was nice enough to let Peter choose an activity from my list.  He chose exploring St. Pat's and St. John the Divine.

On occasion NYC still takes me breath away. To be surrounded by modern architecture and tourist trap shops and then be staring up and the amazing Gothic architecture that has made St Pat's such an attraction is truly amazing. St. Patricks is just as beautiful inside as out! I'm hoping to go back when their renovations are done and there is less scaffolding up everywhere but the structures are still breathtaking. We didn't get to do too much exploring due to the wedding that was going on but it was still great to walk around and see (what we could) of the architecture, Saints, and art.

Wedding Crashers... oops





We walked past a few other gorgeous churches, St. Thomas in particular,  and had a fun time being tourists and standing on the street while reading the buildings' history off our Iphones.

After this we headed up to the Cathedral Church of St. John the Divine which is the largest Cathedral and Anglican church, and the fourth largest Christian church in the world. And let me tell you.... IT"S HUGE! I mean, it looks big on the outside but you can't get a true grasp of it's size until you're standing inside the hall. What I didn't know about this church is that it was founded on the principles of being a "multicultural congregation." Throughout their history they have been known to support different charitable causes throughout the world and are also supporters and advocates for many different refugee programs. Each of their 7 chapels is dedicated to a different culture and each is gorgeous in it's own way. The church is also known to be extremely progressive and for it's continuing art installations. During our visit the church was hosting a display by Jane Alexander speaking of the "lasting disfigurations in South Africa and raising issues about human nature that resonate with viewers internationally." While the art was incredibly striking and immediately captured our attention, it was even more shocking to see this work in a century old Cathedral. The acceptance and willingness of the church to share this work and stand behind Jane's cause was very moving to me. Where I grew up, well... let's just say you would never see nude art hanging out in the churches. The mission of this church to be a "house of prayer for all people and a unifying center of intellectual light and leadership" really struck a chord with me. The love and acceptance of cultures and different beliefs in the St. John community is magnificent. Oh and the gardens in the back and absolutely outstanding, a lovely break from the dirty city.

One of many, many sections by Jane Alexander




Gardens

Keeping on with the theme of culture and acceptance...

Sunday: 
GAY PRIDE PARADE IN NYC




















With the Supreme Court decisions that were made this week (equal rights HOLLA!) Pride weekend in NYC was in full swing. I had the opportunity to attend the Pride Parade with Peter and some of our closest friends here in NYC. While some people look at images from the parade and just see scantily clad men and women dancing and acting scandalous... I saw a celebration of individuality, love, and acceptance. We stood across from The First Presbyterian Church where many members of the congregation were out handing out water, fans, and support! I saw newly wed couples (with federal rights) that couldn't help but share their joy with miles and miles of supporters. I saw individuals with disabilities, Police, military, colorful Latinos, a man riding a Chipotle burrito, couples old and young, all there to share their joy and pride in who they are. But mostly I saw miles upon miles of happy New Yorkers, there for no other reason than to cheer on their fellow human beings. How glorious is that?! I found myself wiping happy tears more than once....

It's so easy to get caught up in the negativity and politics of the world. This weekend reminded me that there is hope out there for us humans. If a million New Yorkers can get together and stand in the hot sun (and then pouring rain) for 6 hours just to show support for their fellow humans.... we're all going to be alright.

Here's to a week of Love, Acceptance, Pride, and Joy! 




** Making good headway but still lots of fun adventures to be had!**

Summer To-Do List
Bike from Westhampton to Montauk
Visit Washington DC
Try Stand Up Paddle Boarding
Explore Governor's Island
Explore Roosevelt Island
See Kaaterskill Falls
Visit the NY Botanical Gardens
Bike the Manhattan Greenway Loop
Explore St. Patrick's Cathedral and the Cathedral of St. John the Divine
Visit Grant's Tomb
Run the steps in Morningside Park
Try the Trapeze
Explore Greenwood Cemetery
Bike to 2 different beaches in 1 weekend
Bike from my house to the Rockaways
Summit Mt. Taurus
Hike Breakneck Ridge and not break my neck
Explore all the Central Park sites


Sunday, June 9, 2013

My NOT To Do List

Ya know, there's this struggle here in New York. The " OH MY GOSH HOW CAN YOU JUST SIT ON YOUR COUCH?! YOU LIVE IN NEW YORK CITY AND THERE"S SO MUCH TO DO!!!" struggle...

Now I've lived in St Paul/Minneapolis, Charleston, SC, and Charlotte, NC all places that have tons to do, but I never felt bad for staying in on the weekend until I moved here. According to many of my friends, this is a common occurrence with the locals and maybe part of the reason everyone is so crazy up here. There's just too much going on and too much to miss out on.

As many of you know, this is been an emotionally exhausting week. Lots of changes going on with my current job, future plans, family, ect and it also happens to be the 2 weeks that I can't talk to Peter.  Last weekend I was feeling super motivated and energized (hence the lengthy bike adventure) but this weekend all I want to do is sit on the couch and watch mind-numbing television while eating Lucky Charms. That's not so horrible is it?

I'm sure I could delve into this topic even further and discuss the contributions of an increasingly "pressure to be active and fit" culture... but that would just take too much work. And yes, I understand this post might seem contradictory to this entire Blog, but seriously, sometimes you just need to be lazy for a weekend and there's nothing wrong with that. 

I'm big on lists, so here's my list for this weekend:

My Not To Do List:
Clean, in any way (other than dishes)
Grocery shop
Laundry
Anything active
Change my clothes (this is just economical)
Budgeting of any kind
Planning of any kind
Worry that I'm missing out on something fun somewhere in the city
Worry that I'm not making good use of my time
Worry... about anything







Yup, I'm going to be lazy and I'm going to feel good about it! Maybe I'll finally finish the second Game of Thrones book too! Don't worry though guys, I've already got some adventures planned for this coming week. I promise I'm not giving up on my original "To-Do List"

To week full of adventures... but in the meantime extreme laziness... Cheers!